I have listed below some habits which highly effective personalities inculcate in been successful at what they do.
Writing down goals, aims and objectives enables us to
clarify our needs. It also makes us committed to ourselves not forgetting the
quote "the shortest pencil is better than the smartest memory" and
also "Reduce your plan to writing, the moment you complete this you will
have definitely given concrete form to the intangible desire" Napoleon Hill
2. BE FOCUSED
Focus is very key in time management, getting rid of
everything that might distract you is a very important way of managing our
time. Take a deep look of things that might just divert your attention whilst
doing a thing and get them out of sight.
Planning the use of our time enables us to use that time
more effectively, particularly when we are faced with several demanding tasks.
Having a plan in place also means that we can gauge our progress and therefore
gain satisfaction and motivation from the task. Don't just start acting anyhow,
set priorities for each day using the ABCD category grid based upon urgency and
importance:
A- Act Now
B- Better Earlier
C- Chase Later
D- Do, Delegate or Dump
Procrastination they say is the thief of time and also
the enemy of success and achievements. People who are more effective get more
done by doing things the right way.
Getting in tune with your feelings and emotions is
essential to understanding others emotional states and what impact you have
upon them. Feelings and emotions are a precursor to action and we need to know
what makes others act or not act in the ways they do.
Being decisive about a countless number of daily events
is far more effective than not standing your ground or not even making any
decision. Individuals who do not know what they want in life or lack direction,
or have no plan or suffer great stress will all have some difficulty in making
good decisions.
Taking a close watch on your thoughts and emotions is a
precursor to control over your actions. Self-discipline is much easier when we
have imbibed the core values and beliefs that make us who we are.
Building trust is like building a spider's web- it takes
much time and skill to develop and yet can be destroyed in an instant. Build your
ability to give trust in order to gain trust from people.
In negotiation, both parties are at par when a win-win
situation is met. Working towards a situation where each party gains something
useful is preferable to those where one or more parties feel they have lost out
or gained less. Great minds always work towards achieving a workable
compromise.
Adopt a positive mental attitude to self and work. We are
the person with control over the way we choose to think and we're what we
think. Stay positive. Staying positive minded also help you improve your
willpower i.e ability to do what has been planned even when the conditions are
not so conducive.
Developing self-confidence means adopting good practices
in thinking, speaking and behaving. It is strongly reinforced by a sense of
achievement and by positive feedback from others.
A peaceful mind can think better than a worked up mind.
Allow a few minutes of silence to your mind every day, and see, how sharply it
helps you to set your life the way you expect it to be.
Abimbola Adebanjo
+2348053060764twitter: @beembolar_01
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