Thursday, 18 February 2016

Last Thursday's #ExpandCapacity on "Why go into a RELATIONSHIP" (Must Read)




1.       I keep asking myself “Why go into a Relationship?”  #ExpandCapacity
2.       Many people go into relationship for so many reasons. #ExpandCapacity
3.       Some for sex, money, Companionship, possession of a particular person, marriage etc #ExpandCapacity
4.       Just so many reasons, I even heard a guy say he is in a relationship to boost his ego; #ExpandCapacity

5.       he has never for once been single after his junior secondary school, so he can’t do without a girl, #ExpandCapacity
6.       God knows how many hearts he has broken. #ExpandCapacity
7.       Also heard some ladies go into relationship so they can call a particular guy their own (Possessive will); #ExpandCapacity
8.       But the question still remains “What is the ultimate reason for a relationship?” #ExpandCapacity
9.       That reason that would make you say “Yes, I am making the right decision”; #ExpandCapacity
10.   Of course so many of us have different answers to that question. However your answer determines how long you can stay in the relationship
11.   Let me share a little story with you; #ExpandCapacity
12.   A beautiful young and innocent girl still in the university who all she wanted was to hangout out with friends, #ExpandCapacity
13.   but all her friends had a guy to take them out. #ExpandCapacity
14.   So she thought “the only way to have someone take me out is to have a boyfriend”. #ExpandCapacity
15.   She finally met this handsome, charming, gentle and caring guy who unfortunately was just... #ExpandCapacity
16.   ...looking for someone to touch and have a nice time with from time to time. #ExpandCapacity
17.   They bcame friends n then she got what she wanted,someone who would take her out when she wants,so she decided to date him. #ExpandCapacity
18.   Funny enough the guy knew that was the main reason the girl decided to date him so he didn't fail on that. #ExpandCapacity
19.   The girl unfortunately fell in love with him, he noticed this and after some months... #ExpandCapacity
20.   he decided to ask for what he thinks could keep the relationship- SEX; #ExpandCapacity
21.   … and that is where the friction started, (clash of interest). #ExpandCapacity
22.   The girl full of emotions who was confused on her values, was wondering how she got to that stage, of falling in love with this guy.
23.   ...Of course, she didn't plan to get to that level, #ExpandCapacity
24.   all she wanted was a guy to hang out with and now her heart is broken. #ExpandCapacity
25.   From the story, in relationships both men and women follow slightly diverted paths. #ExpandedCapacity
26.   What men look for in a relationship is not what motivates women to fall in relationships. #ExpandCapacity
27.   The differences in desires, mentalities, passion, expression levels etc., are resulted from some unknown causes; #ExpandCapacity
28.   might be hormonal differences, mindset changes or social concepts. #ExpandCapacity
29.   Women take time to be settled in a relationship, but if settled down, they remain so dedicated and sacrificing for it; #ExpandCapacity
30.   while men jump into relationships so easily and get out of it with same easiness. #ExpandCapacity
31.   This tweet conversation is basically for women, young women! Sorry guys, #ExpandCapacity
32.   but you can also learn from this, I am trying to let out our little secret of relationship. #ExpandCapacity
33.   It is a common nature of men that mechanical way of life makes them bored and frustrated soon. #ExpandCapacity
34.   They want life like a floating leaf on the surface of water. #ExpandCapacity
35.   So ultimately, there must be something to keep the guy more committed and focused. So your reason of going to a relationship comes in here
36.   Many ladies go into a relationship to avoid being lonely, to match up with their friends in having a boyfriend, #ExpandCapacity
37.   all of which are good  reasons if you really want to play, #ExpandCapacity
38.   but if you are really serious of staying in the relationship for long, you have to think bigger. #ExpandCapacity
39.   There are lots of different types of relationship, from casual sex to marriage. #ExpandCapacity
40.   In other contexts, people try relationships out with different people, #ExpandCapacity
41.   and it can take a while for them to find out what they want and what works for them exactly. #ExpandCapacity
42.   Ultimately, I think the answer to our question “why go into a Relationship?” should be MARRIAGE! #ExpandCapacity
43.   Although, many of us guys don’t like to hear that in the initial stage of relationship as it is scary, #ExpandCapacity
44.    but really, if the guy wants to love you till the end, marriage should not scare him. Sorry guys, I just had to say that. #ExpandCapacity
45.   Some people have lots of relationships. Some people have a few or one long one. #ExpandCapacity
46.   Some people don't want a close relationship at certain times in their life. #ExpandCapacity
47.   All relationships are different, but they usually have one thing in common  #ExpandCapacity
48.   when you're in a relationship with someone it usually means that you both like each other (and fancy each other!) more than anyone else.
49.   It is beautiful but how long do you want it that way?? #ExpandCapacity
50.   “Why go into a relationship” is a question you have to constantly ask yourself if you are about going into one or already in one. #ExpandCapacity
51.   My final statement here will be- It’s completely fine not to be in a relationship until you are ready! #ExpandCapacity
52.   That’s my take on this, what do you think? #ExpandCapacity

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